Many people go only by the appearance yet as it is in looks like a person or how he feels nobody. You could also do it with the façade of a house Compare, you walk past and don't know how to over it and may be too quick to draw wrong Conclusions. Before someone tries to change someone, he first thinks about himself. And put yourself in the mirror look. Never judge a person by his words but according to his deeds. Because many speak excellently and act badly .